Dating Very Attractive Women

Let's be honest. In the 21st century, good-looking women have the world -- literally -- by the balls. For Very Attractive Women, men are panting puppets, sex is available on demand and money flows from male wallets in a never-ending stream of avarice.

Without lifting a finger, Very Attractive Women enjoy lives that most people can only fantasize about.

For men, the lure of Very Attractive Women is obvious:

They are arm candy

They boost male self-esteem

They increase a man's status among other males

They heat a guy's sexual juices to the boiling point

They're just damn good to look at

But Very Attractive Women have their dark sides as well:

They can be shallow, self-centered and self-absorbed

They are generally takers, not givers -- and they have absolutely no conscience about sex-ploiting the male gender

They think they have gold-plated vaginas

They expect men to slavishly cater to them

They are experts at sexual manipulation and revel in the control they have over men

They auction the use of their bodies to the highest bidder they can attract

Their appeal is their appearance, not their sparkling personalities

They can be bitchy and arrogant

They can be psychologically unstable

They may not be loyal, moving to the highest bidder

They are very, very expensive

Despite these drawbacks, Very Attractive Women are what most guys are looking for. But since these women are constantly bombarded with male attention, they can afford to be highly selective about the men they date.

The result?

In picking male companions they choose money first and looks second (or preferably both, like a Brad Pitt or a Tom Cruise).

But what if you don't have extreme good looks or lots of cash? Is there any hope? Is there any way to get one of these hot babes on your arm? Maybe. You just might be able give yourself a decent shot if you're willing to make a couple of shifts in your dating strategy.

There's a famous Seinfeld episode where the perpetually-frustrated George Costanza decides that in order to stop living like a loser, he should act out the opposite of what his natural instincts tell him to do. So he walks up to a stunning blonde and says, "Hi, I'm George. I'm unemployed, and I live with my parents." The woman likes his refreshing honesty and goes out with him.


The key to success with Very Attractive Women is to be different . But most guys don't have a clue.

When confronted with Very Attractive Women they:

Cater to their every whim

Try to show off with expensive cars, boats and other toys

Pay for their attention with free meals, entertainment, trips, and jewelry

Smother them with phone calls or cards

Gush over them with compliments

Get territorial by trying to lock down the relationship too soon and sequestering them away from the attention of rival suitors

Act overly jealous and suspicious

Turn into insecure, wimpy puppy dogs and settle for crumbs of attention

In other words, act like any other guy out there in the dating world.

But the truth is, Very Attractive Women are hit on 24/7. They've heard guys telling them they're beautiful a zillion times, they expect to be pandered to by the male population, and they're used to having men slavishly crawl after them with their wallets wide open.

To a lot of these women, this is old hat, boring -- they can get it any day of the week. What they're not looking for is another typical guy with the same old routine.

So if you want a chance at Very Attractive Women, you're going to have to do something different.

How can you pull this off? Here are a few examples:

Treat her like she's nothing special
Talk to her like you would any other person. Don't act awestruck by her looks, don't gush out compliments and never stare at her with lust. Reduce the intimidation factor. Be debonair. Seem aloof, as if you don't care about her looks. Whatever you do, don't assume she doesn't want to talk to you.

Don't hit on her
This is what she expects from the typical guy, so just make like you're ignoring her. This is a great technique to use if you run into Very Attractive Women on a routine basis at work, a coffee shop, or a health club. If you don't give her any attention -- while openly paying attention to other women -- she won't be able to stand it because you'll be the only guy within a hundred miles who isn't drooling over her. With luck, she'll be intrigued. Avoid pickup lines at all costs.

Tease her
Very Attractive Women can sense fear and insecurity the way a moth smells pheromones, so be light, fun, and entertaining. Boyish charm can take you a long way with these women -- many of the great-looking guys they date can be seriously personality-challenged.

Talk about her interests & passions
Stimulate her mind, as other guys probably don't. Show interest on her intellect. Make her comfortable. Play on your good aspects, and not your looks -- but don't lie to impress her.

Don't compliment her
Don't put her on a pedestal; she's used to hearing praise. If you do give her a minimal compliment, follow up with something off-putting. For example, "That's a nice dress; my sister has the same one." This says she has good fashion style, but that she's not entirely original.

Tell her she's not up to your standards
Tell her you'd like to ask her out, but she's just not up to your usual standards (watch her jaw hit the floor). If you really want to throw her, steal her thunder and tell her that you think you should be just friends.

Wait a little while to call her
If you get her phone number, wait at least a week to call her -- and then tell her you'll try to fit a date with her into your schedule.

Don't push for sex
She knows she's got the goods, so when you're out with her, she expects you to be a horndog. Make her wait. It will drive her crazy.

Run hot & cold
If you haven't gone out with her yet, be extremely friendly, and follow it up with a period of aloofness. Or date her a couple of times, then drop her cold (with every intention of starting back up again). She'll be stunned.

keep her guessing

The idea is to keep her off-balance, intrigued and guessing -- make her want to spend time with you just because you're so different from any other guy out there. Just remember: Don't let your guard down and start going wimpy on her -- the very second she thinks she's in control of you, it's all over.

So by being different, by bringing a little refreshing change into the life of Very Attractive Women, you might be surprised -- it might just be the breath of fresh air she's been looking for.

Sure, it's no magic charm, and it's certainly not going to work every time. Trying to score a date with Very Attractive Women is definitely a numbers game. But all it takes is one, and if you pull it off, you're going to be in for the sweetest ride of your life.

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